…….For a large-hearted man the whole world is the universe, the whole thing is within, the whole thing is yours. When such a heart you experience within yourself then Kundalini just shoots off because, as you know, the Sahastrara is the Heart Chakra. No question of Sahastrara catching if you have a large heart. And to keep the Sahastrara open – is just develop that sense, that wisdom, that: “Nobody’s mine, everybody belongs to God. Who is mine? Whatever God wants, let Him do.”
So get out of this small feeling. Sahaja Yogis do, I must say, I have seen it. They get confined to their families. “My son hasn’t got Realization, my brother hasn’t got Realization, my this thing.” After that it moves, when they get Realization, “This is my son, my brother, my sister, this thing.” This “my” has to drop, which is very, very subtle thing, and that’s why the Sahastrara catches. Everyone is yours because the Kundalini of Sahaja Yogis is made of love, pure love. The pure love has only pure desire, is to love, love everyone equally. When you say it is difficult that means you are not trying Sahaja Yoga. Enlarge your heart; you’ll never feel lost. [….].
So now it is important to see these points, and ultimately the heart is the Sahastrara, or you can call the Brahmarandra, then we have to come to heart. Do not reason out, do not argue it out, don’t work it out mentally from books or anywhere, but through your heart, if you work it out, you’ll understand that nothing is more important than to love someone. And the highest thing is to love everyone equally. Of course in love you might have to say something to a person. [….]
So this is what it gives you discretion; and love is truth. So to this Kundalini, which is nothing but, is the river, ….The river of that pure love which has awakened us with such love, kindness and tenderness, we should try to use that power within ourselves to be like that because our job is, She has given us Realization for the emancipation of the whole world, not only our own. So everyone has to give Realization to others otherwise their Kundalini will settle back. Talk about Sahaja Yoga. Sahaja Yoga is not part time, it is not a side issue, it should be always with you. Wherever you get a chance you have to talk about Sahaja Yoga, you have to work it out, you have to give Realization, otherwise no use.
May God bless you all.
H.H. Shri Mataji Nirmala Devi
(An extract of talk of H H Shri Mataji Nirmala Devi on Shri Kundalini puja, Cabella Ligure (italy), 21 June 1992.)